“I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking
myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is
very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if
you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see
the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, 'Well, if I'd known better I'd
have done better,' that's all. So you say to people who you think you may have
injured, 'I'm sorry,' and then you say to yourself, 'I'm sorry.' If we all hold
on to the mistake, we can't see our own glory in the mirror because we have the
mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can't see what we're capable of
being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness
is in one's own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way
they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as
unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or
too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that's rough. But you can overcome that.
The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don't
have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never
teach.”
― Maya Angelou
http://www.inspiritual.biz/thought-for-the-day/
― Maya Angelou
http://www.inspiritual.biz/thought-for-the-day/
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