Monday, April 29, 2019

MEMORIES

We all have memories.
Each day is an opportunity to make more
Even if you do not like
the ones of the past.
Today you have a chance
to create new ones.
You have the chance to create
memories
which will help you live well,
to stay well
and remember well.
You have the chance to create
memories
which will help you live the
life you are wanting to live.
You have the chance to create
memories
which will bring you one step
closer to the goals you are setting
for yourself.
You have the chance to help others
create memories,
which will help them on their journey’s
You may not feel as if you had power
over the memories of the past,
but you do the ones starting right now.
Even in the painful ones you can find
blessings in the memories and
gifts which helped you grow and evolve.
Hold on to the memories.
There are those I have lost
in my journey.
Once you let them go
they seem to disappear.
So hold on to them
and create new ones
Memories are powerful.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Be you!

Saturday, April 27, 2019

HAVING INTEGRITY



It has been years since we had a television and the only thing I miss is my cooking shows. Go figure. I especially love it when you can see someone grow, take a risk, push themselves, or step forward with integrity.  One of the shows I enjoy watching on YouTube is Master Chef. While I prefer the other countries over the US version most episodes, I have been struck by two episodes of Master Chef US where the judges gave those who had the least successful dishes the opportunity to act from a place of integrity.
I can only begin to imagine the pressure contestants on cooking shows are under. To want to stay in a competition which will give you additional training and mentoring as you begin to move into a new career is important. To then voluntarily leave, knowing it is the right thing to do, takes courage, integrity, and honesty. I appreciated in the two episodes I saw this happen how the judges gave the home chefs the opportunity to leave on their own. As you watched the contestants you could see the struggle within them. You could see the battle between wanting to stay and grow and knowing your opponent deserved to be the one to stay more than you.
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MENDING

I have to begin by owning my mistakes.
I cannot mend,
what I cannot own.
I cannot fix,
what I do not admit I damaged.
Mending the world
begins with me.
If I am living at peace in my soul
then my home is
When my relationship is joyous,
we share that with the world
When we share our joy
we make our community better,
which makes our region better,
which makes our state better
which makes our country better
which makes the world better.
My being mindful about mending
that which I need to mend
is about me making this world a better place.
it is about me helping to mend
the world.
What if each day we fixed our mistakes
before we went to bed.
What if we fixed things
as they happened,
instead of letting them build.
What if we focused on
mending
our lives,
and the world

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Give yourself the gift of living your life to its fullest

Thursday, April 25, 2019

SONG OF THE WEEK

Get on your feet
Get up and make it happen
Get on your feet
Stand up and take some action
These words remind us to do something. If you do not like the direction of your life, take action to make it what you want it to be
https://youtu.be/JPOSGVUYgVQ

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Use your own vision, not the vision and judgment of others

Monday, April 22, 2019

HEARING

One of the things my students have taught me is to
do more than listen.
They want me to hear them.
They want me to remember
they are on a journey
of their own.
They want to learn from my journey,
but want me to learn from theirs.
Hearing
is not just about being heard,
but about hearing.
It is a process of sharing
the wisdom we have both gathered
with each other, but we must be open to
hearing.
It doesn’t matter who the other is,
whether they are the same age or not,
the same sex, race, ethnicity or class or not.
What matters is that we hear them,
that we open ourselves to hearing their truth,
and ask them to be open to hearing ours.
Let’s change the world today by
hearing.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Walk in your light

Friday, April 19, 2019

BEFORE SPEAKING

Is it truthful?
Is it necessary?
Is it kind?
Rumi asked
If I were to honestly answer
these three questions
I would rarely communicate
with others, especially
those with whom I disagree.
While I am good at listening
to others with the grace of God,
I question whether I speak
when I should be silent.
Do I take the time to speak
my truth in a way that is loving?
What makes it necessary
Whose truth?
What is kind?
If I had to physically move
through three gates before speaking
would I have the energy to speak.
Perhaps I should consider how important
it is for me to speak my truth
and if so wait until I can speak them
kindly and with love.
Until then I will sit in
the grace of the Ultimate
and be silent.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Be you

Thursday, April 18, 2019

SONG OF THE WEEK

This week's song of the week reminds us to focus on the eternal, not the materials, as that is where our wealth comes from https://youtu.be/hT_nvWreIhg

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

No more self hate

Wednesday, April 17, 2019

Z IS FOR ZESTY RAVIOLI SKILLET



In our family, anything that can be done in one dish and in less than 30 minutes wins. So when I was debating over one of several zucchini recipes or the Zesty Ravioli Skillet, Zoe voted for the Zesty Ravioli Skillet. She has been craving Italian and Mexican foods lately, so this was perfect and it met one of my criteria – it has green vegetables (spinach). It is only fitting that the Z in my life got to pick the Z recipe for this last blog of the alphabet.
I loved this recipe because it gave me an opportunity to use my new Stainless Steel Nonstick Wok in a dish that is not a stir fry. Italian and stir fry make an interesting combination to think about. It is like when we first began dating. Zoe had no idea what a mustard seed was, never mind where to find one. We had so little in common, but 18 years later we have come to realize that sometimes differences can create something amazing.  Think about some of your favorite pairings. At one point many of them were considered strange. Like peanut butter and chocolate, bacon and maple syrup, bacon and chocolate, or my personal favorite habanero’s and chocolate. So maybe I am still on the strange pairing list. LOL
I have known I can cook pasta in fluids like water and broth, but this will be my first time to cook ravioli in the juices of the diced tomato’s. I can only imagine how much of the tomato flavor is going to get absorbed into the pasta as it cooks in the pan. It reminds me of how we absorb so much of the energy and ideas we have from other people. I would like to think that those who soak me up are absorbing love, light, and positive energy.
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THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Let go of your negative beliefs

Monday, April 15, 2019

SMILING

Smiling
Have you ever watched someone smile,
but it does not feel
like joy, peace, or happiness.
Sometimes you can watch them smile,
but it feels sarcastic.
Sometimes their smile reminds
you of how politicians and diplomats
smile at each other.
Sometimes their smile makes you want to leave
and avoid them .
Then there are those smiles
that brighten up a room.
There is something about their smile which is like
a breath of fresh air.
It may leave you feeling hope
fill you with their overflowing joy
make you share their happiness
or experience their piece
A smile is not just a smile.
It is a way of communicating
what is in our heart,
soul,
and mind.
It is how we share
the one who lives within us
and who wants others
to experience the love and warmth
all through a simple, but genuine
smile.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

Fill your heart first and let the leftovers flow on to those you love

Sunday, April 14, 2019

Saturday, April 13, 2019

Friday, April 12, 2019

SILENCE

I sit here and
there is nothing but noise.
The sounds of the house,
the computer,
the music Zoe is listening to,
and the radio playing in my head.
It is hard to hear
the messages of the Divine
when my head is filled with nothing
but noise.
So I find a space
where I can sit and turn off the noise
outside my body and inside my head.
It is in that space
where I hear a symphony
in the silence
where I can contemplate
the questions of my heart
and hear the messages
that come from deep within.
When I sit in this space of silence
I invite that which dwells within me,
to surface
and to offer me that which
I can only hear in
the silence.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

give up everything that keeps you from flying and soar

Thursday, April 11, 2019

SONG OF THE WEEK

I love this song because it reminds me of those who have journeyed with me for years and love me unconditionally. It also reminds me of my relationship with my Higher Power who I call the Ultimate Conciousness

Ooh, you're the best friend that I ever had / I've been with you such a long time / You're my sunshine and I want you to know / That my feelings are true / I really love you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaZpZQG2z10